“Self-confidence is not about gaining trust in oneself, but about gaining trust in the Self.”
—Tindejuv
As I read this line, I can’t help but reflect on my own journey with self-confidence. For a long time, I believed it was all about trusting my skills and abilities—believing that if I just worked hard enough or believed in myself, I’d have the confidence to chase my dreams.
But as time has passed, I’ve realized that self-confidence runs deeper than that. It’s not just about trusting my surface-level strengths; it’s about connecting with something more authentic and essential—what I’d call the true Self.
This deeper self-confidence isn’t just about skills or talents. It’s about having faith in my intuition, in my sense of purpose, and in my unique journey. It’s trusting that what I need is already within me, that I can meet life’s challenges not just with effort, but with a deeper sense of alignment.
Of course, cultivating this kind of trust isn’t easy. It demands honesty, self-reflection, and a willingness to question old fears and beliefs. But the more I practice, the more I see that trusting my Self—the part of me that feels most real and grounded—is what truly allows me to thrive.
Self-confidence doesn’t make me perfect or guarantee smooth sailing. But it does mean I can stand firm, trust my instincts, and keep moving forward—whatever life brings.
—Acha T. Pigott